Save Your MarriageDay 15
Fight fair
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Day 15. Let's talk about fighting.
Every couple argues. Healthy couples argue too. The difference isn't whether you fight. It's how.
Here are a few rules that change everything. No name calling. No bringing up every mistake from the past ten years. No always and never. Stay on one topic. And when it gets too hot, take a break. Say, I need twenty minutes, and I'll come back. Then actually come back.
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Today's four
- GiveTell your spouse you want to fight better, not less
- TalkAgree on three fair fight rules together, or write them for yourself
- GrowWhen an argument heats up today, take a twenty minute break and come back
- JournalWhat's your worst habit when you argue?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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