Save Your MarriageDay 4
Notice what they do right
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Day 4. Real talk today.
When you think about your spouse right now, what comes to mind first? If it's a list of what they do wrong, you're not alone. But that list has been getting a lot of your attention.
Here's the thing. Your mind finds whatever you train it to look for. If you look for faults, you'll find them all day long. And your spouse can feel it. Nobody wants to come home to someone who's grading them.
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Today's four
- GiveTell your spouse one specific thing they did well today
- TalkReplace one complaint with a request, said calmly
- GrowWrite down three things your spouse does right that you usually ignore
- JournalWhy is it easier to see what they get wrong?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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