Save Your MarriageDay 45
Don't coast
Today's talk · preview
Day 45. Today, I need you to be honest with me.
Somewhere around six weeks, a lot of people start coasting. The tasks are familiar. The marriage feels a little better. So you do the minimum. Ten minutes becomes five. The check in gets skipped. The journal gets one line.
That's normal. It's also dangerous. Marriages don't slide back in one day. They slide back one lazy morning at a time.
the rest is in the app
Today's four
- GiveDo your best kind act from this phase again, with full effort
- TalkHave a real conversation today, not just logistics, for at least ten minutes
- GrowRate your real effort from one to ten on each of your four daily tasks, Give, Talk, Grow, and Journal
- JournalWhere have you been coasting, and what will you do about it?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
Hear the whole talk
Your coach is waiting on Day 1.
Small daily moves that bring two people back together. A short talk every morning, four tasks, and a coach who won't let you quit.
Start Day 1 freeEvery day of Save Your Marriage