Save Your MarriageDay 74

Your fair fight rules

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Day 74. Let's talk about conflict one more time.

Remember Day 15? You learned to fight fair. And on Day 24, you learned to repair fast when you slip. Those two days did a lot of heavy lifting.

Here's the hard truth. You will still disagree. After Day 100, and for as long as you're married. That's not a sign something is broken. Two real people will see things differently. The goal was never zero arguments. The goal is arguments that don't leave damage.

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Today's four
  • GiveIf there's a small tension still hanging between you, take the first step to settle it today
  • TalkAsk your spouse, what helps you calm down when we argue?
  • GrowWrite three fair fight rules together and add them to your playbook
  • JournalWhat did your last disagreement teach you about yourself?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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