Save Your MarriageDay 9

Apologize for your part only

Phase: Stop the Drift
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Day 9. This one's going to be uncomfortable. Stay with me.

Think about the fight you two keep having. The same one, over and over. Now I want you to look at your part in it. Only your part.

I know. Your spouse did things too. Maybe a lot of things. But you can't apologize for them. You can only own what's yours.

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Today's four
  • GiveDo one thing today that makes up for a small way you let your spouse down
  • TalkApologize for one specific thing you did, with no "but" and no "if"
  • GrowWrite down your part in one recurring fight, and only your part
  • JournalWhat makes apologizing hard for you?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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