Save Your MarriageDay 86
Catch the drift early
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Day 86. Let's talk about drift one more time.
Remember Day 1? The whole first phase was called Stop the Drift. You weren't fighting every day. You'd just slowly floated apart. Two people in the same house, a little further away each week.
Here's the hard truth. Drift doesn't stop forever because you did a hundred days. It's the natural pull of busy lives. The good news is, now you know what it looks like. On Day 67, you wrote your warning signs. Fewer real conversations. More screens. Short answers. Keeping score again.
the rest is in the app
Today's four
- GiveDo the small thing that pulls you back toward each other when you feel distance starting
- TalkRead your Day 67 warning signs together and ask, are any showing up right now?
- GrowWrite a drift plan in your playbook, who says what when a warning sign shows up
- JournalWhich warning sign do you think will be hardest for you to spot?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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