Save Your MarriageDay 37

Closeness starts outside the bedroom

Phase: Go Deeper Together
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Day 37. Today we talk, gently, about intimacy.

For a lot of struggling couples, this is the hardest subject of all. It carries hurt, rejection, and silence. So let's go slow, and let's be kind.

Here's the truth. Physical closeness usually doesn't start at night. It starts in the morning. It starts with being kind, being safe, being noticed, and being wanted as a whole person. When the rest of the day feels cold, closeness at night feels like pressure.

the rest is in the app
Today's four
  • GiveDo one thoughtful thing early in the day that makes your spouse feel cared for
  • TalkTell your spouse one thing you find attractive about them, if it's welcome
  • GrowWrite what helps you feel close and what gets in the way
  • JournalWhat would help physical closeness feel safe and good for both of you?
This program is for marriages that are struggling, not for relationships where you are being hurt, threatened, or controlled. If that is you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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